Grief is powerful.  The death of a loved one is like a tsunami that washes into your life and and completely changes the landscape.  In the wake of grief, it is easy to fall into “why and “what if.”  The problem with these questions is that they exist in the past, in a place where we have no power or ability to act.  Why is a like a pony tied to a post walking around and around in circles – it doesn’t lead anywhere.  The question we want to ask is “what now?”  The purpose of this blog is to explore answers to that question.